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Have you found that your Dominance has changed with different partners or relationships? If you’re involved with, or have been involved with, partners of both sexes, has your Dominance changed based on gender or do you feel that it is dependent on the submissive as an individual?

These questions…ugh, but I’m the thick of it now and I’M determined to make it to the end. Woo. Hoo. When it comes to partners and relationships, it’s a given that MY Dominance differs with each because that’s how the dynamic has been established and agreed upon. A Pup requires a different form of Dominance than a boy-in-training and that differs from the submissive on the St. Andrews Cross. Sometimes, I’M Daddy or SIR or Master or Son, it all depends on the dynamic we’ve established.

Thus far, MY partner involvement has been primarily male. If I decided to expand MY Dominance to other genders, of course MY Dominance would change. I’M not so stubborn or monotheistic to believe that one form of Dominance would fit everything. As a Dominant, I believe that it’s important to adapt to meet the occasion and the needs/wants of the dynamic so that it is beneficial to all involved.

Yours In Leather,
SIR Aaron Wolf