A Dominant's Diary

By SIR Aaron Wolf

SIR’s Status

On Vulnerability

Embrace vulnerability to connect authentically and fortify your spirit despite societal judgments.

You Get What You Get

SIR reflects on recovery, letting go of uncertainty, and shares insights about writing their journey while valuing authenticity.

05 May 2025

Amid chaos, SIR chooses progress and self-care, ready for new beginnings, supported by loved ones. Hope fuels the journey ahead.

SIR’s CLAW 25 Intinerary

SIR outlines HIS schedule for CLAW 25, detailing arrival, various events, classes, and social activities.

In Response to the Removal of Durk Dehner as IML Judge

As an Indigenous Leatherman, I’ve experienced my share of looks & disregard as I’ve made my way into & through the Leather Community. The truths are racism exists, discrimination exists, classism exists in the Community. If you haven’t experienced one or all of these, then you come with points of privilege that many do not…

Hills to Die Upon

Sir reflects on personal growth in handling condescension, emphasizing self-worth and focusing on constructive tasks.

17 Years Sober Today

Celebrating 17 years of sobriety, Sir shares a transformative journey from despair to gratitude, emphasizing the power of recovery and the importance of perseverance and support.

Back from Palm Springs Leather Pride

Event drop is an interesting thing & I’ve been recovering from it since getting back from Palm Springs Leather Pride last week. I feel more focused & am looking at getting content pushed out over the next few weeks. In the meantime, please engage in some self-care the next few days; I think we’re all…

Pay It Forward

Today, I took some time to give advice on administering safe, comfortable column ties to someone starting to learn rope. It was great to see him tying his first knots and sending photos for me to see. When you can, take opportunities to share what you know with someone in the Community. Encourage them to…