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Do you expect financial submission from submissive partner/s? If yes, how does it manifest itself? If no, is there a particular reason why? Are you familiar with the concept of financial Domination? Do you have an opinion about financial Domination in general?

The advent of the FinDom is something I’VE seen in recent years. It’s probably been around much longer than I’VE been aware of it but I’VE seen it grow on social media especially on micro-blogging apps like X (Twitter). Usually, it’s cocky, muscled guys flexing and calling for tributes from folx willing to fork over their money. There doesn’t appear to be any vetting going on and that leaves ME feeling dubious about it. I’M certain there are experienced FinDoms out there that run an ethical racket; however, I have to say that it’s not my thing, I don’t get pleasure from managing someone else’s finances. Honestly, anything dealing with numbers and math is a bit of a turn-off.

When it comes to MY Dominance, I prefer to do the thing that I enjoy and not what someone else wants ME to do for them. I believe in mutual agreement and will balk at anyone who tries to strong-arm ME into engaging in something solely for their pleasure.

A few years ago, I met someone who wanted ME to blackmail them and would send ME links to imagery from Gengoroh Tagame. He was on-the-DL and would not give any detail on who he was or what he was into other than wanting to be blackmailed. As for the Tagame links, I perused and appreciated the art; however, that was well-beyond MY skillset at the time and it opened MY eyes to the inexperienced submissive’s subscription the hot-and-heavy before they’ve ever experienced anything. He was persistent with this blackmail thing and I wasn’t feeling it. For one, I knew next-to-nothing about him and, another, I didn’t like that he was trying to tell ME to do this for him. The communications were short-lived and I had to dismiss him. I found out later that he tried doing the same thing with another person and was reminded that I dodged a bullet.

That said, I’ll leave FinDomming to the FinDoms and will turn away anyone who wants ME to do it to them. I’D rather grab someone by their actual nuts than try to wrangle them by their financial ones.

Yours In Leather,
SIR Aaron Wolf