Thank you for expressing interest in a scene with Sir Aaron Wolf at an upcoming play party. From time to time, Sir will open up availability for a scene when he is attending a play party. Please review the following information before completing the form below.
THIS IS NOT A REQUEST FOR SEXUAL FAVORS. You can find that elsewhere. This is a form request for a private, one-on-one BDSM scene with Sir Aaron Wolf only.
AVAILABILITY IS LIMITED. Sir limits play party slots to two (2) prospective subs per party.
YOUR PRIVACY IS RESPECTED. Sir understands the need for discretion and respects your privacy in all matters pertaining to this request. BDSM and those who engage in it are still looked down upon in some areas. That stated, all requests for privacy and discretion will be honored; your respect for Sir’s privacy and discretion is expected.
CONSENT IS MANDATORY. By submitting this request, you are providing implied consent to engage in BDSM activity with Sir Aaron Wolf. Your consent is paramount in ALL matters pertaining to this request and you can revoke it at any time. In that instance, Sir will honor your request and cease further action. The same applies to Sir who may rescind consent if the situation calls for it.
PROCESS & PROCEDURE
SIR’S PROCESS FOR PLAY PARTY SLOTS
Sir has a process for engaging with folx requesting a scene; see below.
- Form Submission. You’re doing this now.
- Form Review. Sir will review your application for suitability; however, if you’ve reached this application, Sir has determined you may be considered suitable for play.
- Suitability Determination. Sir will inform you if you are suitable.
- BDSM/Kink Checklist & Questionnaires. If you are deemed suitable, you will be directed to fill out a BDSM/Kink Checklist. Sir will review your results and will work with you to set up an in-person meeting.
- Initial Meeting. This is a scheduled in-person meeting to gauge your interest/experience/personality; Sir will review your checklist/questionnaire inputs with you. This meeting is an opportunity to ask Sir questions and/or express concerns.
- Logistics. If things go well, Sir will work you to plan the scene.
- The Scene. Sir and you will have a scene on the planned date, time, and location.
- Aftercare. Immediately following the scene, aftercare will be administered according to your pre-scene questionnaire.
- Post-Scene Check-in. For the 72 hours following your scene, Sir will check in on you to see how you are doing. This is a vital part of the process as your wellbeing is of utmost importance to Sir.
- Feedback & Future Scheduling. Sir will send you a feedback form with the option to schedule a future scene.
PROCEDURE FOR THE 15 ASSOCIATION’S PLAY PARTIES
Sir participates in the 15 Association’s monthly play parties; the 15 Association is “a social and sexual fraternity for men who engage in BDSM” and is active in the San Francisco BDSM community. As such, if you wish to play with Sir at one of these play parties, you must apply to attend. If you’ve already been approved by the 15, skip to Step #5.
- Visit the 15 Association’s website at www.the15association.org.
- Select “Request Play Party Invitation” and follow the instructions on the page.
- It’s very important you submit your application as soon as possible as it takes time for the 15 to review and approve applications.
- Once you’ve obtained approval to attend, create an account and log in.
- You’ll need to purchase a ticket for the play party.
- Once purchased, inform Sir and we will make plans.
Once in the 15’s system, you will not need to request invitations to future play parties; however, you will still have to obtain tickets to the parties. Ensure you obtain your ticket in advance as there is no on-site ticket sale.
Additionally, once you’ve been approved by the 15 and have completed Sir’s process, you are able to make quicker plans for a scene at a future play party.
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