A Dominant's Diary

By SIR Aaron Wolf

Thank you for expressing interest in serving as a demo submissive for SIR at an upcoming event. From time to time, SIR will open up availability when he is conducting demos at an event. Please review the following information before completing the form below.

  • THIS IS NOT A REQUEST FOR SEXUAL FAVORS. You can find that elsewhere. This is a form request for serving as a demo sub for SIR at an upcoming event.
  • AVAILABILITY IS LIMITED.  SIR limits demo slots to whatever the limitation is for events calling for demos.
  • YOUR PRIVACY IS RESPECTED. SIR understands the need for discretion and respects your privacy in all matters pertaining to this request. BDSM and those who engage in it are still looked down upon in some areas. That stated, all requests for privacy and discretion will be honored; your respect for SIR’s privacy and discretion is expected.
  • CONSENT IS MANDATORY. By submitting this request, you are providing implied consent to engage in BDSM activity with SIR. Your consent is paramount in ALL matters pertaining to this request and you can revoke it at any time. In that instance, SIR will honor your request and cease further action. The same applies to SIR who may rescind consent if the situation calls for it

process & procedures

SIR’S PROCESS FOR DEMO SERVICE REQUESTS
  1. Form Submission. You’re doing this now.
  2. Form Review. SIR will review your application for suitability; however, if you’ve reached this application, Sir has determined you may be considered suitable for service.
  3. Suitability Determination. SIR will inform you if you are suitable.
  4. BDSM/Kink Checklist & Questionnaires. If you are deemed suitable, you will be directed to fill out a BDSM/Kink Checklist. SIR will review your results and will work with you to set up an in-person meeting.
  5. Initial Meeting. This is a scheduled in-person meeting to gauge your interest/experience/personality; SIR will review your checklist/questionnaire inputs with you. This meeting is an opportunity to ask SIR questions and/or express concerns.
  6. Logistics. If things go well, SIR will inform you of upcoming events that HE has signed up to do demos for.
  7. Demo Scene. SIR and you will have a scene on the planned date, time, and location.
  8. Aftercare. Immediately following the scene, aftercare will be administered according to your pre-scene checklist.
  9. Post-Scene Check-in. For the 72 hours following your scene, SIR will check in on you to see how you are doing. This is a vital part of the process as your well-being is of utmost importance to SIR.
  10. Feedback & Future Scheduling. SIR will send you a post-scene check-in with the option to schedule a future scene.
PROCEDURES

At times, SIR will participate in event to conduct impact and sensation play demonstrations. When that occurs, SIR will need willing submissives to serve as demo bottoms for the designated timeframes that SIR signs up for. As such, this options requires a degree of flexibility and communication leading up to the event. There is no guarantee that you will be chosen as a demo bottom. If you wish to be added to a list of prospective demo bottoms for future events, please proceed with submitting your application.

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Thank You for Your Request

SIR will review your application for demo service consideration within seven (7) days and will respond shortly thereafter. If you are deemed initially suitable for service, you will be issued access to the BDSM/Kink Checklist. If you are requesting service consideration in San Francisco, further discussion is needed as SIR’s availability is limited when HE is visiting the city.

ABOUT YOU

What Are You INto?

The following items are what Sir Aaron Wolf is into; your responses will provide an initial gauge of compatibility regarding interests. There are no wrong answers.