The purpose of this lesson is to discuss how SIR introduces the element of intimacy into HIS impact and sensation play scenes.
- INTRODUCTION
- SIR Aaron Wolf
- Northern California-based Diné Leatherman & Dominant
- Over 16 years experience in Leather & Kink, EMT-trained
- Demos & scenes
- Organizations
- Breeches & Leather Uniform Fanclub (BLUF)
- BLUF San Francisco (BLUFSF), Organizer
- Masters & slaves Together (MAsT) Sacramento
- Sacramento Gay Men’s Chorus (SGMC)
- Sacramento Valley Leathermen/LeatherCorps
- Queer Leather Association of Sacramento (QLAS)
- SIR’s Modalities
- Impact play: Physical sensation to create pleasure
- Sensation play: Sensory stimulation to heighten pleasure
- Sensuality: Pleasing or fulfilling the senses
- SIR Aaron Wolf
- PRE-SCENE
- Vetting: Determining the suitability of a submissive for a scene.
- Consent: Mandatory and sexy.
- Negotiation: Understanding limits and allowances of exploration.
- Presentation of SIR’s tools
- Floggers, canes, paddles, etc.
- Pinwheels, claws, clips, etc.
- Restraints, shackles, blindfolds, etc.
- Informed consent: SIR’s scene usually involve the following.
- Touching: Running hands over the submissive’s body
- Lips & tongue: Kissing, licking & biting (if permitted)
- Frottage: Close body contact with SIR from behind
- Man scents: If allowed, providing a sub a whiff of SIR’s pits
- THE SCENE
- Demonstration
- First good signs: Surveying the body
- Tenderization & sensitization: Setting the stage
- Explorations in the further regions of experience: Sensation’s rim
- The Endorphin Storm: Rolling and unrolling, coiling, emerging
- Bliss of another kind: Steady as it comes right down to you
- The Dominant’s Side
- Everybody is a book of blood; wherever we’re opened, we’re red…
- The greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely places…
- Pleasure was pain there, and vice versa. And he knew it well enough to call it home.
- Demonstration
- DISCUSSION
- The submissive’s side
- Q&A
