Intimacy & Impact Play

The purpose of this lesson is to discuss how SIR introduces the element of intimacy into HIS impact and sensation play scenes.

  1. INTRODUCTION
  1. PRE-SCENE
    • Vetting: Determining the suitability of a submissive for a scene.
    • Consent: Mandatory and sexy.
    • Negotiation: Understanding limits and allowances of exploration.
    • Presentation of SIR’s tools
      • Floggers, canes, paddles, etc.
      • Pinwheels, claws, clips, etc.
      • Restraints, shackles, blindfolds, etc.
    • Informed consent: SIR’s scene usually involve the following.
      • Touching: Running hands over the submissive’s body
      • Lips & tongue: Kissing, licking & biting (if permitted)
      • Frottage: Close body contact with SIR from behind
      • Man scents: If allowed, providing a sub a whiff of SIR’s pits
  1. THE SCENE
    • Demonstration
      • First good signs: Surveying the body
      • Tenderization & sensitization: Setting the stage
      • Explorations in the further regions of experience: Sensation’s rim
      • The Endorphin Storm: Rolling and unrolling, coiling, emerging
      • Bliss of another kind: Steady as it comes right down to you
    • The Dominant’s Side
      • Everybody is a book of blood; wherever we’re opened, we’re red
      • The greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely places
      • Pleasure was pain there, and vice versa. And he knew it well enough to call it home.
  1. DISCUSSION
    • The submissive’s side
    • Q&A