A Dominant’s diary is a living document about the life & times of Sir Aaron Wolf. This diary serves as a place for those seeking insight into the life and mind of a practicing Dominant, a Kinkster, and a gay, Indigenous Leatherman. The site delves into subject matter that Sir sees fit to write about though it is always attached to discussing his Journey in Leather and Kink.

a Dominant’s diary started when Sir Wolf noted a lack of discourse addressing the Dominant side of the D/s dynamic, specifically gay, male Dominance. While there exists volumes of literature told from the viewpoint of submissives about Dominants, the narrative from Dominants about Dominants is lacking. Sir Wolf decided to create a space for fellow Dominants by writing from the Dom perspective and provide insight to submissives curious about the Dominant Life.

The diary has another important purpose: Representation.

Sir Wolf approaches writing from the perspective of a gay, male, Indigenous Veteran and Leatherman. While there is no surprise regarding the gay male aspect, it’s the Indigenous part of the grand narrative that Sir Wolf wishes to advance. Operating within the Indigenous aspect, it’s Sir’s aim to provide representation and outreach to marginalized sectors within the Leather/Kink Communities. Sir has experienced division and discrimination within and outside Leather/Kink and seeks to be one of many lights illuminating the dark.

a Dominant’s diary is here for the curious and the learned, the Dominant and the submissive, the gendered and genderless, the lost and the certain. Take what you need from the words Sir Wolf puts out here.

Ahé’hee’.