SERIES

March 2026 MAsT Sacramento Meeting

MAsT Sacramento meetings provide a communal space for diverse individuals in the M/s-D/s lifestyle to exchange insightful discussions and foster connections, enhancing personal dynamics.



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Last night, the Pup and I attended this month’s meeting for MAsT Sacramento. We look forward to heading out and grabbing a meal with an amazing cross-section of fellow Leatherfolx and Kinksters from all over the Sacramento area. Masters, slaves, dolls, problems, Sirs, Pups, littles, Princesses, Daddies, you name it; chances are high that one will meet one or all of them during the discussion.

MAsT Sacramento meetings serve as a monthly getaway from the mundane headspace, a haven to revel in awesome discourse on topics pertaining to the M/s-D/s lifestyle. A couple of years ago, I was invited to attend my first MAsT meeting after conducting demos at Leather Pride during Sacramento Pride. Curious and hesitant, I attended and found an amazing sense of community with kindred souls and I’ve used what I’ve learned during these meetings to foster/enrich my existing dynamics. As I’m in the process of training a boy to be my slave, MAsT Sacramento has proved an invaluable resource of information and camaraderie.

Below is the series of posts I made on my Bluesky account over the course of the meeting; I try to live-post notables and observations over the course of the meeting. This is a little taste of what these meetings are like from my perspective. You’ll find more information about MAsT at the end.


Tonight's Topic: Expressions of Submission & Authority – How It Looks, How It Feels, and How It’s Received #SacMAsT

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T03:12:01.686Z

Meeting has commenced; intros coming up. A decent group tonight. #SacMAsT

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T03:33:45.468Z

Leadership change is coming for #SacMAsT as a new Director assumes the role starting next month. Nocturnal has been Director since June 2023; sad to see him go but happy to see him progressing in another space.

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T03:50:54.513Z

Qs: What's the difference between Dominance & leadership? Is leadership within Dominance important? #SacMAsT

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T04:24:23.253Z

One take: Dominating does not necessarily mean leading but leading entails how you are heard, seen, your stance, how you hold authority & space. #SacMAsT

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T04:24:23.254Z

My take: Dominance is an expression, a container; leadership is but one very subjective aspect that one puts in that container. Using a military example, a fresh Butter Bar Lt. tends to use domination to get their way vice a seasoned Sergeant who understands the mission, the troops, etc. #SacMAsT

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T04:24:23.255Z

My take: I think of the social sphere & the cadres of 19YO FinDom Masters who may not understand the responsibility of being a Dominant vs. the Dom who expresses care for subs through guidance & consideration of needs/wants/limits/etc. #SacMAsT

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T04:24:23.256Z

The discussion has morphed into a discussion of toxic Dominance with inputs from Dominants & submissives alike. #SacMAsT

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T04:25:13.777Z

Leadership within Dominance is the willingness to accept responsibility & accountability for the privilege of being a Dominant.Toxic Dominance is the pursuit of Dominant privilege without assuming responsibility & accountability.#SacMAsT

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T04:28:17.747Z

Good leadership is often invisible. Leaders do the work without seeking acclaim. Recognition is not the mission. #SacMAsT

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T04:31:55.859Z

Leadership differs in its application with D/s vs. M/s dynamics. Within the M/s dynamic, presence & demand applies at ALL times. "I am, at all times, Master." #SacMAsT

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T04:37:01.035Z

The discussion tonight is pretty fooken amazing. #SacMAsT

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T04:42:16.882Z

The ability to inspire is within the heart of Dominance and leadership. #SacMAsT

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T04:43:26.053Z

Unexpected expectation is preordained disappointment. #SacMAsT

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T04:44:54.223Z

On the converse, toxic submission outsources responsibility to the Dominant without accountabilty. #SacMAsT

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T04:47:31.148Z

Empathy is vital to lead/follow within the D/s-M/s dynamic. #SacMAsT

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T04:55:35.647Z

Closing statements are being made now now; this had been a great #SacMAsT meeting. Nocturnal's last sadly.

SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his) (@siraaaronwolf.bsky.social) 2026-03-05T04:56:34.309Z

About MAsT

Masters & slaves Together (MAsT) International is dedicated to providing education, support, and resources to individuals involved or interested in consensual Master/slave relationships.

MAsT, through its member chapters, provides a forum for like-minded individuals to come together for the discussion of topics meaningful to Masters and slaves, to share their experiences and ideas, and gain knowledge of intentional authority-based dynamics and the Master/slave lifestyle.

MAsT currently has 80 active chapters worldwide and 385 members participated in meetings in the past month.